Ubi Kayu Gergasi.....

NI nak citer pasal ubi kayu gergasi.... tak cayer tgk la pic tu.... anak kawe pun takut tgk ubi kayu ni.... kawe nak cabut dari tanah pun susah.... nasib baik tercaut gak. Ubi terbesar pernah kawe tanam. Tanam sendiri tau..... Tapi lama gak la dibiarkan baru cabut. Kalau musim perayaan tentu dapat buat kerepek. Leh jual2 dapat gak duit.... Leh masuk Guiness Book Of Record ni.... hehe... Tapi ubi ni nak arwah dah... tak sempat nak awet...dah jadi makanan ayam dan itik.

DUIT....DUIT.....DUIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Bila citer bab duit ni.....pening kepala.... cukup bulan dapat gaji terus licin... mana nak bayar bil api, air, astro, telefon, hp....mana nak bayar kereta, mana nak beli susu dan cawat anak.... mana nak makan minum...mana nak isi minyak kereta... adussssssss!!!!! licin.... gaji pulak dah la kena potong sana, potong sini.... nak tunggu gaji berikutnya terpaksa la ikat perut. Duit... duit.... kenapa orang mencipta duit? kan bagus kalu duit tak wujud dalam dunia ni... nak apa2 pegi amik free jer kat kedai....

Ni pulak musim perayaan.... Bajet untuk duit raya kena lebih... anak buah makin bertambah.... ermm... taknak bagi takut dicop kedekut plak... Apa kata raya tutup pintu rumah.... best gak tu.... hehehe.... tapai mana bleh...raya tahun sekali.... Tapi bila tiba musim raya ni mcm2 hal nak kena guna duit... ni satu lagi.... petang semalam.. terkezut aku bila tengok cermin kereta aku pecah. Hampeh!!!!! geram betul aku...rasa nak cekik jer orang punya kejer tu..... ni semua kejer orang mesin rumput yang takder otak... ada ke patut dia mesin rumput dekat ngan kereta aku... Bangang! aku tak kira...aku nak jugak tuntut ganti rugi... dah lah sengkek, dia tambah lagi kesengketan aku ni.... Gerammmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!! sabo.... bulan2 puasa ni....bayakkan sabo....uhuhuhuhuh..... Apapun tak lama lagi nak raya....ucapan selamat menyambut hari raya untuk semua.......

Doa dan wirid untuk anak cemerlang dalam pelajaran

1.SURAH AL FATIHAH – Doa pembuka kepada segala urusan.

2.SURAH AL ‘ALAQ (Ayat 1 – 5) - Anak kunci segala ilmu.

3.SURAH ASY-SYARH – Untuk melapangkan dan melegakan hati.

4.SELAWAT NABI S.A.W – Doa terang hati. Dibaca 11 kali dikala hendak ke sekolah.

5.SELAWAT NABI S.A.W. – Doa terang hati
“Ya Allah restulah dan sejahterakanlah junjugan kami Muhammad hambamu dan pesuruhmu yang ummi dan di atas keluarga dan sahabat baginda semuanya.”

6.SELAWAT NABI S.A.W – Pembuka pintu hati
“Kesejahteraan kemuliaan seluruh bulan sekelilinginya beribu-ribu di atas junjugan pesuruh yang amat tinggi.Ya Allah..Ya Allah. Wahai Pembuka segala ilmu. Wahai Yang Maha Mengetahui segala ilmu. Ya Allah engkau bukakanlah pintu hati kami dengan pembukaan yang sepenuhnya.”

7.WIRID SUPAYA ALLAH REDHA DENGAN USAHA KITA.
Mudah-mudahan tidak menjadi seorang muslim profesional yang munafiq, tidak terikut-ikut sikap orang Nasrani dan Yahudi (Nasihat dari Prof. Ustaz Hashim Yahya, Mufti Selangor)

Radiitu billahi rabba, wabii islaami diina, wabi muhammadin sallallaahu ‘alaihi wasallaam nabiyan wa rasulla.
Telah bersabda Rasul: Barangsiapa yang berkata ketika petang (zikir yang tersebut) Allah tetap akan meredhakannya (Riwayat Tarmizi)

8.DO’A MUDAH FAHAM DAN MUDAH HAFAL
Allahummarzuqna ya Rabbi fahman-nabiyin, wa-hifzal-mursalin, wa-ilhamal-mala-ikatil-muqarrabin fi-afiatin ya arhamar-rahimin.

“Ya Allah! Kurniakanlah kami fahaman para nabidan hafalan para rasul serta mendapat ilham para malaikat yang hampir denganMu juga kurniakanlah kami kesihatan wahai Yang Amat Mengasihani.”

9.DOA SUPAYA MENJADI PAKAR TENTANG SESUATU PERKARA
“Ya Allah, terangkanlah hatiku seperti terangnya hati-hati orang yang arif. Fahamkan aku perkara agama ku.”

10.DO’A MENDAPAT ILHAM ATAU IDEA YANG BAIK
Allahumma alhimni rusydii wa a’idznii min syarri nafsi.
“Ya Allah, berilah aku ilham petunjuk (kecerdasan) dan lindungilah aku dari kejahatan nafsuku.”

11.DO’A KETIKA HENDAK BERSYARAH ATAU BERBAHAS
Rabbisy rahli sadri wa yassirli amri wahlul ‘uqdatan min lisani yafqahu qauli
“Ya Allah! Lapangkanlah dadaku, mudahkanlah pekerjaanku (urusanku) dan lancarkanlah lidahku agar mereka faham pembicaraanku.”

12.DO’A MOHON DITAMBAH ILMU DAN KEFAHAMAN
Rabbi zidnii ‘ilman warzuqni fahman
“Ya Tuhanku, tambahkanlah kepadaku ilmu dan berilah aku kefahaman (pengertian yang baik dan fahaman).

13.WIRID UNTUK MENDAPAT ILMU DENGAN HIKMAH
Ya ‘Aliimu Ilman Hikmah
“Wahai Tuhan Yang Maha Mengetahui Ilmu Yang Berhikmah”

14.WIRID UNTUK PELAJAR
Dibaca selepas solat (7 kali) supaya diberi petunjuk, ilmu, kepakaran yang nyata.

Ya Haadii Ya “Aliimu Ya Khabiru Ya Mubiin.
“Wahai Tuhan Yang Maha Memberi Petunjuk, Wahai Tuhan Yang Maha Mengetahui, Wahai Tuhan Yang Maha Waspada Wahai Tuhan Yang Nyata”
Wirid ini adalah sebahagian dari wirid susunan Ahmad Asrory Al Ishaqy.

15.DOA UNTUK MENDAPAT HIKMAH
Ya ‘Aliimu Allimni Hikmah
“Wahai Tuhan Yang Maha Mengetahui, ajarkanlah aku hikmah”.
(Nasihat dari Ustaz T.M. Fouzy Jumat)

16.DOA KETIKA KEGELAPAN FIKIRAN
Dibaca sewaktu menduduki peperiksaan

Ya Haadi, ihdinii.
“Wahai Tuhan Yang Memberi Petunjuk, tunjuki aku”
Imam Ahmad bin Ali Albunni mengatakan, Nama Allah ini adalah lafaz zikir malaikat Israfil. Apabila kita berada dalam kegelapan fikiran, kita baca doa tersebut, insya-Allah seketika itu juga kita akan memperoleh petunjuk. Boleh juga dibaca seketika sesat jalan.

17.WIRID UNTUK MENJADI BIJAK PANDAI
Ya Rasyidu – Dibaca sebanyak mungkin selepas solat
“Wahai Tuhan Yang Maha Pandai”
Jika kita ingin menjadi orang yang bijak pandai, di samping kuat belajar dan menuntut ilmu pengetahuan dan mengembangkan bakat masing-masing, eloklah bermohon kepada Allah dengan berulangkali berzikir kalimah di atas sebanyak mungkin, semoga akan berjaya.

18.WIRID UNTUK “MELIHAT” YANG DI RAHSIAKAN
Alaa Ya’lamu Man Khalaq Wahuwal Lathiiful Khabiir
“Tidakkah Dia mengetahui apa yang Dia ciptakan, sedangkan Dia Maha Halus lagi Maha Mengetahui”.
Jika dibaca 9 kali ketika hendak tidur dan beristiqamah dengannya, insya-Allah ia akan bermimpi dan melihat dalam tidurnya akan sesuatu yang dikehendakinya. Jika diamalkan selalu insya-Allah akan didorongkan untuk belajar perkara yang akan disoalkan dalam sesuatu peperiksaan. Boleh juga dibaca ketika mengalami suatu masalah dalam pelajaran atau projek.

Selamat Beramal. Boleh dibacakan untuk anak-anak atau minta anak-anak baca doa berkenaan pada masa-masa yang sesuai seperti selepas solat dsb

12 Tips for Childrearing

Gambar hiasan jer..... anak saper ntah....
By Ibrahim Bowers
(http://islamicschoo l.net/articles/ 12tipschildreari ng.htm)

"Don't touch those!" the father commands as his child plays with the
dishes on a shelf at his host's house. A few seconds later, the
father looks up from his conversation with his host, and his child
is still playing with the dishes. "I told you not to touch those!"
the child's father repeats. A few seconds later, the father looks up
and sees his child still playing with the dishes. The father says
nothing and continues his conversation with the host.

It happens all the time. Children are given orders, and when they
don't obey, the parent simply goes back to his conversation and
forgets.

What should parents do in this situation? Some parents would say that
we should stop the child, others that we should punish him, and
others that he is "just a child," and we should not expect too much
from him.

As Muslim parents, we have an obligation to bring up our children in
the best manner---to teach them right from wrong and to show them
what we and society expect from them.

Those who give opinions on this matter usually use the Quran or
hadith to support their positions, and it may be difficult to
establish, without a doubt, who is more correct. However, as
parents, we either have to find the correct method to teach and
discipline our children, or we at least have to come up with a valid
method for teaching and disciplining our children. Definitely, we
should not just "figure it out as we go" --- one time using this
method and another time that one.

The following principles should be useful in establishing a
childrearing method which is not too extreme.

1. Start Early

Although many parents believe that very small children are too young
to understand, their early years are probably the most important
opportunity for parents to start them in the right direction. Once
good patterns are established, they will be easy to maintain. Once
bad patterns are established, they will be difficult to change.

2. Have your Emotions Under Control while Instructing Childern

Don't discipline your child because you are angry with him, but
rather because you want to teach him. Motive is important here. As a
Muslim parent, your motive should be to help your child.

3. Parents should Present a United Front

Parents should discuss their strategy for training and disciplining
their children and agree to work together as a team. If children
realize that one parent is strict and the other is easy, they will
play the parents against each other. When the strict parent stops
them from doing something, they will go ask the easy parent for
permission. Both parents need to tell the child the same thing. If
parents sometimes disagree on how to discipline the child, they
should discuss it privately, not in front of the children.

4. Be Consistent

Most experts on children agree that parents should be consistent.
Constantly changing the rules and expectations will only confuse your
child. If you stop him from writing on the walls today, and you allow
him to write on the walls tomorrow, he will not understand when you
get angry the next time he writes on the walls. If you inconsistently
apply the rules, he will also test you at times to see whether you
are going to be tough this time or easy. If, however, he knows from
experience that you always stop him the first time, he will quickly
learn it does no good to try to get away with something. Although
consistency is essential, it does not mean that parents cannot change
their minds about the rules. If you do change the rules, however, you
must inform your child in advance so that he will know what to
expect. This failure to be consistent is at the root of many parents'
inability to control their children.

5. Never Lie to your Childern

If you lie to them "every now and then," they may not believe you
when you tell them the truth. This also applies to those situations
when you tell your child to stop doing something, or you will put
him in his room, spank him, or take away his toys. If you make that
kind of a threat, you must stick with it. Otherwise, you have lied,
and your child will not know when you are serious and when you are
not. He will then be forced to test you again and again to see.

6. Don't Reward Crying

If children realize that everytime they cry, they get what they want,
crying will become like money for them. Everytime they want
something, they will cry. On the other hand, if you teach them that
crying doesn't get them anything, they will stop crying for things.
Let them cry and cry and cry, but don't give in. In the beginning,
it will be difficult, but be patient. Once they learn the lesson and
stop crying for everything, you will be happy that you were firm.
You can either listen to crying for a few days or for the rest of
your life. It's your choice.

7. Teach Your Child to Apologize When he/she Does Something Wrong

This is important so that he will learn what is expected of him from
others and from Allah (SWT). If he does something wrong, he should
ask forgiveness from Allah (SWT) and apologize to any people who
were hurt by his words or actions. This will be useful in developing
his conscience.

8. Accept Child's Apology

Be quick to excuse your child when he apologizes and shows that he is
sorry for his disobedience or bad actions. When we do wrong, we seek
forgiveness from Allah (SWT) and want to be excused. Likewise, we
should excuse others. This will develop in your child a sense of
mercy and prepare him for an understanding of the forgiveness of
Allah (SWT). Always make it clear to the child that you love him,
especially after he has been in trouble and apologized. Let him
understand that no bad feelings remain.

9. Apologize For Your Mistakes

Don't be too proud to apologize to your child when you make mistakes.
This will establish in him a belief in your sense of justice and
prevent him from viewing you as nothing but a tyrant.

10. Teach Islam From an Early Age

Teach your child from an early age about Allah, the Prophets, the
Sahaba, and the great heroes of Islam. If we develop in them a love
for Islam and provide them with righteous examples for their heroes,
they will be much less likely to go astray. A person wants to be like
his heroes. If he admires Prophet Muhammad, Abu Bakr, and Ali, he
will try to follow their example. If he admires a rock star or a gang
leader, he will want to be like them. If we inspire our children with
good examples, when they are tempted to do wrong, they will,
InshaAllah, remember these examples and remain steadfast.

Although I was raised as a Christian and didn't embrace Islam until I
was in my 20s, I was greatly influenced by the Biblical stories of
Prophets like Nuh, Ibrahim, Musa, and Isa (peace be upon them all).
Although the Biblical stories were not in their pure form, they still
inculcated in me a love and respect for the way of the Prophets.
Although I fell into many of the temptations of youth, Alhamdulillah,
I always felt something within me holding me back from going too far.
While many of my friends went headlong into a highly destructive way
of life, I believe that my knowledge of, and affection for, the
Prophets helped me to return to a better path.

11. Instruct in Good Morals

Teach your child good morals and good manners. An excellent book for
this is Islamic Tahdhib and Akhlaq: Theory and Practice, by B. Aisha
Lemu.

12. Dicipline Your Child

Discipline should not become the domain of one parent. Mothers and
fathers should both participate in the disciplining of their
children. Although mothers often threaten their children by telling
them that they will get into trouble when their father gets home,
this method is not very useful for three reasons. First, discipline
should be carried out immediately after the disobedience occurs so
that the child will connect the disobedience with its consequences.
If parents wait until later, the child may have forgotten why he got
into trouble, and feel that the parents are not justified in
disciplining him. Second, sometimes the child must be stopped
immediately, and the mother cannot wait until the father gets home.
The child must be taught to respond immediately to her commands as
well as his father's. Third, making one parent responsible for
disciplining the child may turn that parent into the "bad guy" in
the child's eyes. The child should recognize that both parents agree
on their methods of disciplining him. Although the degree to which
various parents use them will vary, the following five methods might
be used for disciplining your children.

(1) Putting your child in the bedroom. When the child is disobeying,
he should first be warned that you are going to put him in the
bedroom if he doesn't obey. If he continues to disobey, take him to
the room immediately. Do not keep repeating warnings. For smaller
children, you will probably have to sit in the room with them; for
older children, they can sit alone. If they are crying or yelling,
don't let them come out until they stop. Also, teach them that they
need to apologize before you let them out. If they apologize, show
your happiness and quick acceptance.

For those children who whine and cry for everything, it is good to
teach them that they will be sent to the bedroom when they whine and
cry. They should not be allowed to whine and cry in the living room
where they will disturb others. Once children learn that when they
whine and cry, they will be sent to the bedroom, the whining and
crying should decrease dramatically. Although it may take a long time
for some children to stop crying and apologize, the parent must not
give in. The child should feel that everytime he persists in
disobedience, he will be the loser. This method, if done correctly
and consistently, should dramatically affect your child.

(2) Showing your disappointment. If you have established a good
relationship with your child, your disappointment with him will have
a great impact on him. If he does something you don't like, and you
tell him you are angry with him and show him that you are not going
to play and joke with him because of his actions, he will probably
feel bad and apologize. This works especially well when several
family members show disappointment with the child's actions.

(3) Withholding privileges. Not letting the child go out to play,
ride his bicycle, or use his skates, for example. Threats to do this
are useful only if the child believes you.

(4) Giving rewards. These could be compliments, sweets, toys, or
anything else that your child likes. When your child is rewarded for
doing good, he is likely to do good again. After some time, his habit
will be to do good. Two words of caution, however.

First, rewards should not become bribes. You should not tell your
child, "If you obey me, I will take you for ice cream." Rewards
should be spontaneous on your part to show your appreciation for
your child's actions. They should not be expected by the child. You
should say, "Since you have been such a good boy today, I'm going to
take you for ice cream."

Second, you should be careful that your relationship with your child
does not become a marketplace where he expects to get a reward from
you for everything he does. As the child gets older, he will not need
to be given material rewards as often, although you should continue
to let him know that you appreciate his good behavior. You should,
however, teach him that even though he doesn't always receive a
reward from you for his good actions, he might receive one from
Allah (SWT).

(5) Spanking. This is the most controversial aspect of discipline.
Some parents feel that it is wrong to spank children because it
teaches them that violence is the answer or that "might makes right."
Others go too far in the other direction and believe that unbridled
beating of their children is okay. Some parents slap their children
in the face, beat them on the hand, or twist their ears. These
methods should, however, be avoided. Slapping in the face humiliates
the child, and beating on the hand or twisting the ear could cause
permanent physical damage to the child. Of course, it should also be
clear that such things as burning or starving children, making them
drink hot sauce, or other such harsh punishments should never be
used.

I personally use only two physical methods for disciplining my
children: light slaps on the hand when the child is using his hands
to do something wrong and spanking the child on his buttocks in a way
that is not permanently harmful but that only causes some stinging.
If the other methods of discipline are used wisely, a parent should
rarely have to resort to physical discipline at all. However,
sometimes it may be necessary. If done with mercy and justice and in
the best interest of the child, it should not be considered as
violent or abusive. When children grow up, they will be held
accountable for their actions. In some cases, the punishments they
face for wrongdoing will be severe. To teach them right from wrong
now, even by spanking or lightly slapping their hand, will help them
avoid these problems later in life. Hammudah Abd al Ati writes in
The Family Structure in Islam: ". . . [T]he Prophet urged parents to
demand that their children begin practicing the regular daily
prayers by the age of seven. If the children do not start the
practice by the age of ten, they should be disciplined by physical
means --- without causing them harm or injury, of course --- only to
show disapproval of their behavior." (p. 199)

If parents follow these principles consistently, they should see a
dramatic improvement in their children in a short time. If, however,
the children have been allowed to run the house for a long time, and
the parents have given up their authority, it will take longer for
the children to get used to the new rules. Although the various
methods of discipline are important and will help you to control
your children and force them to do what you say, you will not always
be with them as they begin to grow, and, thus, the penalties and
consequences from you will not concern them. Ideally, as you
discipline your children you will also develop their conscience and
their knowledge of right and wrong. Teaching them good morals and
manners and instilling in them a love for Allah, the Prophets, the
Sahaba, and the great heroes of Islam should help them to do good
even when you are not around. The attainment of self-discipline and
a concern for doing righteousness whether they are with others or
alone is the true goal of childrearing. The afore-mentioned
techniques are merely means to achieve this end.

Sesuci Lebaran

Salam Aidilfitri kepada semua kenalan tak kira di mana berada..... Maafkan segala kesilapan lalu.... Tahun depan buat lagi...hehe... Ni gambar terbaru aku ambil.... Setelah diedit...macam ni la rupa dia. Tapi nak ambik gambar anak-anak lelaki 2 orang ni ya Allah...sampai berpeluh2. Tu kira yang terbaik dah tu..... Nak jadi apa la budak 2 orang ni..... Aktif sungguh!....tapi takper...yang penting mesti cerdik.... tul tak? Apapun dan separuh puasa ni ingat2 la kepada yang tiada....sedekahkanlah alfatihah untuk mereka. Raya Nanti jemput la datang ke rumah.... duit raya untuk budak2 jer k.

Salam Lebaran untuk semua....

Resepi Orang Malas....

Ikan Kukus Ala-Ala Stim Gitu.....

Puas memikirkan apa nak masak untk berbuka nanti? ni dia resepi yang paling mudah. Pendek kata orang malas pun dapat masak. Senang jer......
Mula-mula sedia kan bahan-bahan seperti berikut;
1. Ikan (Siakap, Merah, Bawal) ikan keli, ikan puyu tak sesuai k....
2. Halia seketul (Besar ibu jari kaki) terpulanglah kalau ibu kaki korang besar mana.... ketuk2 sikit.
3. Sebatang serai..... ketuk2 jugak.
4. 3 ulas bawang putih.... ketuk2.
5. 1 ulas bawang merah..... belah 4.... jangan belah 2.
6. Cili padi.... ikut suka hang la nak masuk byk mana pun....
7. Daun limau purut...diracik2...
8. Cuka sesudu.
9. Gula secukup rasa.
10. Garam secukup rasa.
11. Sedikit tepung jagung...nak kasi pekat sikit.
12. Air sechawen..... (ikut sleng iklan kopi radix)

Cara memasak:
Masak air dalam periuk atau kuali.... campakkan bahan2 tadi sekaligus.... bila rasa2 dah masak tu tutup la api.... try test sedap ker tak... gerenti terangkat bontot korang..

Susah Senang Seorang Pendidik

Pejam celik hari ini dah 12 hari kita berpuasa.... dan nak masuk separuh pun. Rasa2 korang selama 12 hari ni sempurna ke tak puasa? klu rasa sempurna alhamdulillah... kalau tak tu cuba2 lah buat sebaik mungkin. Kerana Ramadhan akan meninggalkan kita tidak lama lagi. Dalam duk susah senang ni.... dah 14 tahun aku bergelar seorang guru. Rasanya cukup lama.... Dah bermacam pahit maung aku rasa sebagai seorang pendidik. Masih terkenang di telinga aku ucapan pensyarah maktab aku dulu yang memberi amaran kepada bakal2 pendidik supaya berfikir dahulu sebelum menandatangani perjanjian. Kerana menurutnya, "sekali terjun ke bidang perguruan, sampai mati kamu akan menjadi guru".

Itulah ayat yang masih aku ingat. Namun, apa yang dicakapkannya memang betul. dah 14 tahun.... aku cuba untuk menceburi kerjaya lain. Namun payah. Cara terbaik ialah dengan mengambung pelajarn dari diploma ke ijazah. Namun masih lagi bergelar guru... Aduh!!! macam mana ni.... aku dah rasa keperitan menajar di negeri orang. Susah senang, suka duka aku tanggung sendiri. Hanya Tuhan yang tahu. Tapi atas dasar tanggungjawab aku teruskan.

Dari tahun ke setahun aku dapat merasakan keperitan dan bebanan tugas yang ditanggung oleh guru. Kadang2 aku berkecil hati kerana bebanan yang ditanggung tidak setimpal dengan upah yang diperolehi. namun apa boleh buat... nasi dah menjadi bubur. Bukan senang nak mendidik manusia supaya menjadi manusia yang berakal. Nak mendidik pelajar seramao 40 orang dalam satu kelas...ya ampun pak..... gawat..... kena kelas yang hujung2 lagi la sesak nafas.... aku ingat memiliki ijazah kurangla bebanan, namun.... berganda yang aku dapat. Silap sikit guru juga yang kena. Budak2 zaman sekarang takleh nak jeling, takleh nak jentik...pendek kata tgk jer la apa yang diorang buat. Ah....lantaklah nak jadi apa. Cukup bulan aku dapat gaji...hehehe....

Tapi aku rasa masih lagi kekurangan. Aku masih belum puas dengan kerjaya aku. Alhamdulillah...aku dapat tawaran untuk buat master. Itu cita2 aku. Aku nak belajar setakat yang mampu. Tua pun tualah... yang penting ilmu tu lah harta yang aku ada. Aku harap kali ini aku tak akan berada lagi di sekolah yang entah apa lagi bebanan bakal menanti. Syukur ya Allah. Mudah2an dipermudahkan perjalanan hidup aku ini. Mungkin rezeki anak2 kot. 2 tahun tempoh yang agak lama. Bagaimana la aku nak tinggalkan anak2 kesayangan aku. Kesian kat bini aku terpaksa jaga anak2 yang aktif tu... takper sabar la skit yer yang.... tak lama...2 tahun jer.... restukan perjuang ayang k.....muahhhh!!!!!!!

Rumahku Syurgaku.....

Rumah oh rumah..... bila la kawe nok ado rumoh sendiri ni.... lo ni anok 2 doh. Rumoh takdok lagi, duk rumoh lamo ngan bonda ni maklum la...ado jo hok dok keno... punoh situ, punoh sini.. nok keno bekki sokmo. Teringin jugok nok wak rumoh ni.... tapi bilo duk pikir bare2 melambung naik ni... stop la dulu. Ple rumoh tu siap doh...cumo tunggu tapok jah lagi.. mulo2 nok wak rumoh belake rumoh lamo ni jah... ado la tanoh hok beli dulu2 dale suku ekar. Maso tu harga aku beli RM27,000 ribu jah. Ore kato muroh.... tapi bilo duk pikir2 tanoj tu rezab kerajae nok wak pembangune, jadi tok guno jugok wak situ. Dale duk pikir2... terigat pula tanoh pusako hok 3 ekar atah namo 6 ore adik beradik... bilo sore nok jual keno la pecoh lot. Jadi... dale duk huhahua... aku beli la tanoh tu denge hargo RM40,000 setengoh ekar. Terpaksa la aku wat loan... makin kecik la gaji bulane aku......bero'ok la nopok gayo.... Molek jugok la wak rumok situ.... jauh skit dari ganggue ni... duk molek2 lamoke kerajae nok amik tanoh keno pulok pindoh.... InsyaAllah la... klu ado rezeki wak jugok la rumoh untuk anok bini aku berteduh...anok koho besar..... mitok2 la muroh rezeki bule ramade ni....... Amin.....

Ermmm..... Sedapnyer.........

Tengok gambar kek lapis tok teringat jaman dolok2 waktu mek di Sarawak. Aduh!!... bayank kenangan mek di sinun ooo...... Palin mek sik lupak kenagan nyambut raya first time ngan sidak sinun. Gelegak perut mek minum air gas. Ney ndak, semua rumah diberik minum air gas. Kawan mek madah, mun sik mauk minum air gas, mintak jak "air juruk".... aduh... malu mek dikena sidak ya... sik hal..... tapi paling mek suka bila nanggar kuih kek lapis ya..... macam2 rupa ada.... geram mek nanggar. suka mek makan kuih ya.... ya lah...bila nanggar pic tok rindu hati nak makan. Tapi jauh gilak mek nak pegi meli ya.... kacak2 lapis nya. Kuih ati pari nyaman juak...tapi manis gilak, sik bolek makan byk. hehehehe...... Teringat juak mek ngan ayah angkat mek sorang.....baiknya ngan mek..... selalu mek beraya ngan sidaknya.... bukak posa umahnya....... rindu mek ngan kitak urang... InsyaAllah ada rezeki mek nak pegi lagi sinun ngembak family mek.... Lamak sik makan ambal ko..... nyamannn.... sehinggal menjilat jari.....ekekekeke...... bulan2 posa tok...semua teringat bah..... camney la rupa Sarawak kinek tok o...... Laksa Sarawak pun nyaman juak..... bila la mek dapat pegi lagi sinun....

Tatap Wajah Orang Tersayang Di Waktu Tidurnya

Pernahkah anda menatap wajah orang-orang terdekat dengan anda ketika mereka sedang tidur? Kalau belum, cubalah sekali sahaja menatap wajah-wajah ketenangan mereka ketika sedang tidur. Ketika itu yang kelihatan adalah ekspresi paling wajar dan paling jujur dari seseorang. Orang yang paling kejam di dunia pun jika ia sudah tidur tidak akan kelihatan wajah bengisnya.

Perhatikanlah ayah anda ketika beliau sedang tidur. Sedarilah, betapa badan yang dulu sasa dan gagah itu kini semakin tua dan lemah, rambut-rambut putih.......... mulai menghiasi kepalanya, betapa kerut merut mulai terpahat di wajahnya. Orang inilah yang setiap hari bekerja keras untuk kesejahteraan kita, anak-anaknya. Orang inilah rela melakukan apa sahaja asal kan perut kita kenyang dan pendidikan kita lancar.

Sekarang, beralihlah. Lihatlah ibu anda. Kulitnya mulai keriput dan jemari! yang dulu halus membelai tubuh bayi kita itu kini kasar kerana tempaan hidup yang keras. Orang inilah yang tiap hari mengurus keperluan kita,yang sanggup berkorban jiwa dan raga. Orang inilah yang paling rajin mengingatkan dan mengomeli kita semata-mata kerana rasa kasih dan sayang, dan sayangnya,.....ingatan dan teguran itu sering kita salah ertikan.

Cubalah menatap wajah orang-orang tersayang : Suami,.... wajah di antara lelaki-lelaki yang hadir....dialah lelaki pilihan yang Allah jodohkan,
yang hanya perlu dibahagiakan barulah kita dapat menikmati erti kebahagiaan yang sebenar. Renunglah wajah perempuan yang bergelar isteri,
yang masih setia,namun kesetiaan dan ketabahannya sering kita uji. Kakak, Abang, Adik, Anak, Sahabat........ Semuanya. Rasakanlah sensasi yang
timbul sesudahnya. Rasakanlah energi cinta yang mengalir perlahan-lahan ketika menatap wajah-wajah yang terlelap itu. Rasakanlah getaran cinta
yang mengalir deras ketika mengimbas kembali betapa banyaknya pengorbanan yang telah dilakukan ....... untuk kebahagiaan anda. Pengorbanan yang
kekadang tertutup oleh kesalah-fahaman kecil yang entah kenapa selalu sahaja nampak besar.Pengorbanan yang melelahkan namun tidak diungkapkan..... Secara ajaib Allah mengatur agar pengorbanan itu dapat kelihatan lagi melalui wajah-wajah jujur mereka ketika sedang tidur.

Rasakanlah betapa kebahagiaan dan keharuan seketika terganggu jika mengingatkan itu semua. Bayangkanlah apa yang akan terjadi jika keesokan
hari, orang-orang yang dikasihi itu tidak lagi membuka matanya, buat selama-lamanya... .

Renungkan......

Kasih sayang adalah rahmat Allah......Apabila kita merasakannya bermakna
hidup kita sentiasa dirahmati......Kadang-kadang kita perlu berkorban
untuk kasih sayang itu....bukan untuk dihargai tetapi sebab kita percaya
dan tahu erti kasih sayang yang sebenarnya........

Rayer....Oh! Rayer.......

Selamat Hari Raya....(awalnya ucapan...hehehe...)

Syawal tak lama lagi menjelma.... pening...pening memikirkan nak beli itu ini...duit pun dah sengkek....aduhhhhhhh!!!!!! macam mana ni..... tapi takper....korek jer mana-mana yang ada. Yang penting raya tetap raya... Anak isteri pun nak jugak beraya. Takkan nak tutup pintu jer. Duit raya nak jugak disediakan. Anak2 sedara makin bertambah. Juadah untuk hari raya pun belum difikirkan lagi. Nasib baik baju raya anak isteri dah siap awal2 lagi.... Ala.... raya jer la ala kadar. Nak lebih2 pulak takut membazir. Hehe... Tahun ni macam2 bisnes aku buat untuk cari duit lebih. Boleh la belanja lebih sikit. Alhamdulillah....syukur......Apapun aku nak ucapkan Selamat Hari Raya Aidil Fitri untuk semua. Maafkan segala kesalahan yang dilakukan sepanjang tahun ni. Tahun depan tu kita kira semula la......

Ramadhan Datang Lagi

2008, Ramadhan datang lagi menjenguk umat manusia yang berkhalifah di muka bumi. Aku memanjatkan kesyukuran kepadaMu kerana memberi peluang kepada hambamu ini untuk muhasabah diri disebalik seribu pintu rahmat yang kau buka sepanjang bulan Ramadhan yang penuh keberkatan ini. Kali ini aku menyambut Ramadhan kali kelima sepanjang aku bergelar suami kepada isteriku (Wan Zaliha) dan kali kedua kepada anakku (Wan Muhammad IzzRafiq) danpertama kali buat (Wan Muhammad IzzRaziq). Dibulan mulia ini aku memanjatkan doa agar merahmati keluarga kita dan memberkati perkahwinan kita selamanya. Buat isteriku.... segala asam garam dalam alam perkahwinan umpama asam garam dalam masakan yang dihidangkan. Dan buat anak-anakku yang comel... ayah sentiasa mendoakan kalian agar menjadi anak yang soleh, berbakti kepada ayah dan mama serta berguna kepada agama, bangsa dan negara. Amin......